***NEW*** Ok, we've had to add this to the page. Many of you have written us about how you fear the Barbie and Ken crowd, that you are average and fear the intimidation that comes with that.
1.) Do we have great looking people here? Of course we do. But they come in all shapes, sizes colors and backgrounds. We are proud to say we have one of the most diverse crowds of any club in the tri-state area. Not just body types, but cultural, racial and social and economic backgrounds.
2.) What's the average height and weight of members? Couldn't tell you. The truth is that most of us don't really care. Especially when you've had the opportunity to get to know someone, and that meeting has now forced you to adjust what type of people you thought you were interested in.
3.) What's the age range? Will I meet someone my mothers age when I get there? Well, unless you are in your late 60's then it's possible you could meet someone your mothers age here. In fact, to some's surprise they actually saw their mothers here! But thats another story! Our ages ranges from the minimum of 21 years old to those of retirement age. The average fluctuates each night but generally runs 25ish to 55ish. But younger and older folks are here each night and have a great time because most of us really don't ask for ID's! We meet, talk and see how things click!
4.) My wife and I are scared, new and generally kind of a wall flower couple, is there a way for me to overcome that? We always have a generous amount of staff and committee members (Red Tag) here to help in any way they can. Communicate with us. Tell us if there is someone you'd like to meet and most of us can make that happen in the most relaxing, un-awkward manner possible. Keep in mind, nothing HAS to happen! Just being here is a sexual charge like you've never experienced! We have a ice-breaker game or event every evening to help transition folks from bench warmers to crowd surfers!
5. My wife and I are an interracial couple, is this a problem? Not for us! Some people think that because we're up here in the beautiful hills of South Central PA, that that somehow makes us backward and intolerant. The truth is that we just don't care about that! It's not an issue! And the ones that do care, are in fact looking for that type of situation for themselves in their lifestyle experiences! And that's a good thing!
6. One last thing on this issue. Coming here is so different than any "straight" club in the world. Everyone is here for the same reason! We all have something in common! Can you say that about the local pub down the street? No! So, let your hair down. Get a sitter and make the drive. We'll make you glad you did!
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The Cottage is open both Friday and Saturday nights from 8:00 p.m. until 3:00 a.m. Fridays are for couples and singles and last Saturday of the month. The other Saturdays are couples and limited singles. This means roughly 1 male per 10 couples.
A single gentlemans first visit must be on a Friday night before he is permitted to attend a Saturday function.
Sorry guys, single ladies are allowed to attend any party.
ALL FIRST TIME VISITORS MUST SHOW A VALID PICTURE I.D. and arrive before 10:00 p.m. This is a BYOB club with last call for alcohol at 2:30 a.m. NO ALCOHOL OR CIGARETTES ARE SOLD AT THE CLUB.
We provide all setups, a buffet style dinner, and a continental breakfast on both nights. You must call or email (you must email prior to 5:00 p.m. on Friday and Saturday nights) in advance for reservations before each party.
Our facilities include a large bar with on duty bartenders, game room with pool tables, dance area with live DJ, smoking and non-smoking movie rooms, and a huge Jacuzzi. Towels and lockers are furnished at no cost. We have designated non smoking areas. We also have limited over night accommodations available on first reserved basis for a nominal fee.
WE PRIDE OURSELVES IN OUR LAID BACK, NO PRESSURE ATMOSPHERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Most often asked questions:
1. Q. What is the age range of our guests?
A. The age ranges from 25-45 with some older and some younger. MUST BE OVER 21.
2. Q. What should I wear?
A. Casual but appropriate for a night club. (sexy clothing permitted)
3. Q. How do I get to The Cottage?
A. Directions will be given when you call for reservations.
4. Q. How many couples attend?
A. 30-40 on Fridays, 60-80 on Saturdays.
You should make reservations the week in which you want to attend except for special events, on special events you should reserve early. We do not except checks. We do except Master Card, Discover and VISA. ANYONE FOUND WITH DRUGS WILL BE PERMANENTLY BARRED FROM THE CLUB. NO DRUGS ARE ALLOWED.
 Management reserves the right to refuse admission or membership to anyone. This may sound harsh but we are a private club and our interests are in our members, their privacy and well being. Because we are a private club disregard of these rules of the club and rules of etiquette may get you sent home or banned. Basically be nice! Have fun.
NO MEANS NO - The Cottage owners, management and staff take pride in our reputation in the lifestyle community of being a club where respect for each other is unmatched, no means no, enough said.
DISCRETION - What goes on at the club stays at the club!
Reservations are required for admission. Please don't show up at the door without reservations, you will not be admitted. If you are a member use the reservation page or call the club. If you are not a member follow the instructions on the "how to join" tab.
The doors open at 8pm. If you are new, we would like you to arrive as early as possible so you may fill out the required paperwork and receive your club tour by our Host and Hostess. Everyone else is required to arrive before 11pm. Doors are locked and only those who made arrangements with management ahead of time will be permitted in. Most of the clubs rules regarding etiquette and expectations will be explained in detail by your Hosts and Hostesses as part of your tour.
DRESS CODE: It's an old cliché but it's true. "You never get a second chance to make a first impression". And it's no different here. Dress to impress. Casual is fine, but no cut off shorts, jeans with holes, sweat pants or muscle type shirts. Please, no baseball style caps. It should be common sense but be aware of personal hygiene.
The Cottage is a BYOB Club (Bring your own bottle). We do not sell or offer alcohol or cigarettes on the premises. What ever is left over you must take with you when you leave. Your alcohol will be kept at and served by our RAMP/TIPS certified bartenders. Remember, the bartender reserves the right to refuse to serve anyone who appears to be intoxicated. Even though it's your alcohol, state laws still apply. Last call is 2:15am.
NO ILLEGAL DRUGS or other controlled substances allowed. No firearms (even if you have a permit) Anyone asking for or offering money to "play" will be permanently banned from The Cottage. No refunds of membership or door donations will be given.
NO CAMERAS or VIDEO CAMERAS of any kind. We understand the need to have cell phones with you for baby sittersand other communication needs, however, camera phones are not permitted.
If you are staying the evening with us, your room will be assigned to you at 3:30am or sooner at the managements discretion. Once assigned a room we ask that this be considered bed time. Please do not wander the halls after club hours. Check out is by 11am.
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